Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Why the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge?

My lovely sister Tricia nominated me for the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge yesterday.  I really admire Trish.  She is constantly involved in something to help promote awareness to various charities.  My favourite being the time she shaved her head for cancer (on my behalf).  So, when she nominated me to dump a bucket of ice water on my head to help bring awareness to ALS how could I refuse? If you must, watch video below! I have to admit my first reaction was that I wanted to strangle her!


I have to process things and because of that spontaneity doesn't come easily (yes, 24 hours notice is still spontaneity in my world).  Learning a bit more about the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge I learned more about the challenge, people's reactions to the challenge and about ALS itself.  
  1. Once you are nominated you have to participate by either donating or dumping ice over your head within 24 hours (does that mean from the time the person that nominated you completes the challenge or from the time that you learn you've been nominated?).
  2. The water must be ½ ice ½ water. Not water alone (I get it).
  3.  In one continuous video you mention what you are doing, who you are donating to, who nominated you and who you will nominate (in my nervousness I only said ice bucket challenge not ALS ice bucket challenge.  Oops but I did mention ALS at the end so am I redeemed?).
  4. You are to nominate 3 people (I only nominated 2 people - Adrianna Haddad and Tamsen Keyes.  Mostly because I know how much I hate having something thrown at me that I'm not very comfortable with).
  5. You must post the video to a social media site (really really don't want a video of me on a social media site but fine I'll do it for the promotion of awareness).
Why?  It wasn't hard to make the decision to participate due to family experience with ALS (it always seems easier when there is a personal connection).  One of my grandfathers was diagnosed with ALS but at the time was known as Lou Gehrig's Disease.  I was young but I do remember visiting him and seeing what this horrible disease did to him - eventually taking his life.

Will I donate?  No.  I think this is a personal matter we all face when it comes to the many charities in our midst.  I'm all for promoting awareness for a number of charities but won't necessarily donate.  I've been diagnosed with cancer twice and this past winter was diagnosed with a hereditary gene mutation that puts me in a MUCH higher risk of getting more cancers (has included processing, worrying and the needed screenings for the remainder of my life).  For obvious reasons cancer is my main choice of charity.  For my future and my families future.  I won't judge you for your choice so I expect the same respect.

Really a bucket of ice water?  It seems in our judgementing world where ever there is a positive there is bound to be a negative and this is no exception.  However, I wonder why?  I mean really!  Look around us and at all the charities.  There is always something that stands out to help promote awareness......shaving heads, walking, dancing, growing moustaches, adopting pets, food, bracelets, chocolate bars, running, adopting an orphan, bike rides and the list goes on.  Sure there are some people out there that think this particular challenge is just about following the crowd and joining in on the mass media but I like to look at it as a fun way to promote awareness to something that is very debilitating and few know about.  Clearly it's working.  Look at the amount of money this year alone this charity has managed to raise and how many of you knew nothing about ALS but now do.  

In the end, if me dumping a bucket of ice water on my head does nothing but make the reader aware of the disease is that not better than nothing at all?  Honestly, I hadn't thought of ALS for a long time.  Until the ice bucket challenge.  So why not?

I look forward to seeing my nominees videos Tamsen Keyes and Adrianna Haddad!


http://www.als.ca/en

The Book of Mormon 30 Day Reading Schedule

Tonight for Family Home Evening we discussed starting a new family scripture reading schedule. After much discussion we decided that as a family we'll start reading the Doctrine and Covenants.  Adrianna and Eli decided they'll continue to read the Book of Mormon for their personal scripture study.  

While I was looking for a reading schedule chart to help the kids out I came across a Book of Mormon 30 Day Reading Schedule and found myself pausing.  I've NEVER read the Book of Mormon in 30 days.  It's always taken months with lots of studying, pondering and I'll admit a few missed nights.

I then found a .pdf document titled All the Book of Mormon Page Titles   and found myself rather excited to find such a gem.  So between starting the schedule and the chance to record page titles while reading I'm pretty excited about my personal scripture study!  



Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Eli's Grade 7 Moving Up Ceremony

Congratulations Eli, you made it!!  Your elementary school years have been filled with fantastic teachers and incredible experiences, don't forget them but carry them with you throughout your life.

Eli receiving his certificate from his teacher Mr. P

Hard to believe elementary school has come to an end in our household.  Those were some fantastic years! Full swing into the next amazing chapter of our lives.....teenagers and high school!!

Monday, July 21, 2014

Prospera Valley MedioFondo 2014

Today Les biked solo in the Prospera Valley MedioFondo (88km bike ride) but we were there to cheer him across the finish line (even if we did just about miss him)!!  He did awesome blowing his time out of the water from last year.  We're so proud of his accomplishment and example of hard work and dedication. Way to go Les/Dad!!

just crossed the finish line
check out the finishing time!

Sunday, July 20, 2014

5 Siblings, 3 Spouses & 10 Sweet Children

We been fortunate this weekend to have my sister Tamsen and her family in town visiting from Minnesota. (SO looking forward to their move in the spring which will mean we'll all back living in the same province after all these years!!)

This meant a weekend of family!  Last night was adult time - dinner out while the kids hung out at the house. Glad to report both parties had lots of fun together!  Today was spent visiting, playing, bowling, eating, visiting, eating, playing..... you get the picture.

Speaking of pictures we did get some.......



Friday, July 18, 2014

Friendship


Thank you for the planter!  Found the PERFECT spot too!!

A sudden visit from my sweet friend Vivian and her husband, Steven today.  A friendship that started back in our Fort St. James days and has continued all these years later.

Looking forward to visiting them in their home town next year!

Found!

Its found!  Unusable but found!  Lets rewind to June 26th when Adrianna went from glasses to contacts.  Four days later while I was trying to rush her out the door and she was trying to rush putting her contacts in one jumped!  

We looked EVERYWHERE for the thing but HOW do you find a contact that is clear on white and beige objects?  I say impossible and I didn't think it would ever be found but alas tonight she found it!  Where was it?  Stuck to the bathtub. 

I'm sure it won't be the last time it ever happens but it was certainly a lesson for the both of us. 

Sunday, July 13, 2014

Maple Ridge Caribbean Festival 2014


A few years back the kids and I attended the Maple Ridge Caribbean Festival and I LOVED it!  For whatever reason though we haven't been back......could be that its always so HOT, HOT, HOT?  This year was no different but with a few hours left in the evening we thought it would be something nice to do as a family instead of sitting in the HOT, HOT house!

So glad we did.  Sun was going down, a nice breeze had started to stir and the entertainment was excellent!  

Band - Los Furios 
An excellent band with lots of fans mixed in the crowd.  People were laughing, dancing and just having a great time.  A fun band to listen to.

Band - California Beach Boys
I still haven't figured out what the Beach Boys has to do with the Caribbean BUT that was the closing act and as you can see from the picture they drew in quite the crowd!  




We sat and enjoyed the tunes and crowd for a bit and then decided to take in more of the festivities.......food and shopping......

A huge fan of the pineapple drink!
We learned that this was the 14th year that the Caribbean Festival has come to Maple Ridge.  Looking forward to the 15th!

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Gardening

This years garden variety is consisting of peas, tomatoes, kale, purple basil, green basil, mint, pineapple mint and chives.  As I was typing that out it began looking like a rather odd mix. However, they all have their purpose!

Peas are being eaten right off the vine so they never make it beyond that point but SO yummy.  Really, the only way I actually like eating peas.  The tomatoes are flowering and little green tomatoes have started growing.  As for the kale and basil......well the pictures below show how well they are producing!  Kale always appears in our smoothies so this won't last too long.  My mouth waters taking in the aroma of the basil - I love that sweet smell!  This year purple basil is a new variety for me to grow but it smells and tastes just like the green.  Can't wait to make some home made pesto sauce!!  The mint and chives aren't to be forgotten either.  Mint is great for cooking with and for drinks although I think I spend more time just smelling it in the garden.  Love walking by and getting that faint smell of mint. Mmmmmm.  

kale

purple and green basil



Friday, July 4, 2014

Golden Lesson

Tonight was a reminder of just how much I learn from my children.

Headed towards the dollar store so that the kids could buy themselves some treats we drove by a gentleman on the side of the road, on crutches and holding a big sign.  I didn't catch what it said but basically he was needing help.

Eli full of emotion stating to no one in particular, "It breaks my heart EVERY SINGLE TIME I see someone struggling, EVERY SINGLE TIME."  Instead of using the money he was going to use to buy himself a treat he asked that I stop so he could give it to the gentleman.

Tearing up trying not to burst into tears feeling his deep compassion we did just that. Such a sweet, sweet spirit he has and a lesson needed for the rest of us.

Time to Catch Up

Getting back into the blogger world which also means needing to update a year and a half worth of entries (give or take).  Yes, really.......because its how I roll and if you know me well enough you're not surprised at all!  

I've had several entries in draft format for some time but have hesitated loading them because I know there are stories that go in between but alas its time to bite the bullet and just get them posted!  What does this mean??  I'll still be adding the in between bits so if you're all that interested in knowing what the goings ons have been in the Haddad world you'll have to look back memory lane every once in awhile OR you could just look to the right of the blog and pick the year and month to see if there are any new entries!
Happy reading.........

Thursday, June 19, 2014

A 'Wicked' Night Out

I'll tell you as I get older it seems harder to keep friends in the same town.  It seems everyones lives are ever changing and due to what is best for our families somebody always seems to be relocating.  However, I'm so grateful for the friendships that have continued to blossom even if there are hundreds or thousands of miles between us.

This week has been so much fun having Kris in town visiting. We've had late night chatting and will have shopping across the border in a couple days.  However, today was a fantastic day spent in Vancouver shopping on Granville Island, driving through Stanley Park, a dinner full of laughs then ending the evening with a fantastic production of Wicked!  


Kristine, Jennifer, Tricia and Adrianna
Hooray for technology and transportation that help make these friendships lasting!!


Tuesday, June 10, 2014

The Music Year Comes to an End. For School Anyway!

It's been another fantastic year of music at MRSS!!  Adrianna is loving it SO much she's adding 5 music classes to her school schedule next year.  Seems pretty insane to me but she LOVES it and so we say GO FOR IT!!

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Teachers Strike = Sudden Road Trip

With Les off and the kids suddenly off due to the rotating teachers strike we decided to take advantage of the weather and family time.  A road trip to Whistler which included shopping and a picnic.


A nice reminder of just how beautiful of a place we live in....don't you agree?!

Monday, May 26, 2014

Snazzy Jazz 2014!


The jazz program has come to an end for this school year but definitely not without a big bang to celebrate such a fantastic year of hard work and talent!

Snazzy Jazz 2014

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Music Got Les in the Paper

Adrianna was out delivering her papers today and half way through she informs me she can look up her dads nostrils on the front page of the paper. What?!  A tiny picture albeit but once we flipped through the paper the following article appears and who's showcased? Les. We can still see up his nostrils though!


Two nights ago MRCB (Maple Ridge Concert Band) had our spring concert and a photographer was taking pictures while the 'senior' band was performing.  The article is all about our upcoming 'Birthday Bash' Celebration taking place on June 14th.


What he LOVES to do!

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Monday, February 24, 2014

A Dramatic Change

Yesterday I got together with my sister Trish to do hair.  A dramatic change transpired.....


I remember as a teen wanting to dye my hair black but my mother was pretty adamant that wasn't going to happen.  I listened.  Then I hit a stage where I thought it was ridiculous anyone would want to make changes to their hair.  That opinion stuck  around for a long time.  Years later I got cancer and chemo treatment caused me to lose all my hair, it grew back with no vibrance. Just a mousy color.  Hair treatment suddenly became an interest!  Always subtle but yesterday something made me be spontaneous (so not me) and I jumped in with both feet with a little encouraging nudge from my sister of course!

What I learned....maybe when doing such a dramatic change I should inform my family ahead of time!